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I don't even know why I go on the absolutepunk.net message boards. Those people make me so angry with their unfounded hate for anything they don't think is punk rock enough. It's disgusting.

Also making me upset is that Pete Wentz (of Fall Out Boy fame) held a Q&A with fans and alluded to the fact that Folie a Deux might've been FOB's last album. I hope hope hope that's not true. If Green Day or Good Charlotte can get through marriages and kids so can you =(. Ugh.

I hate caring about music so much. I get more defensive about Cobra Starship or Fall Out Boy then I would if someone called me a nigger. Isn't that something? It's the truth though.

And ha, my life right now? Well, summer classes are over so I'm sitting around the apartment doing nothing. I failed Orgo FOR THE SECOND TIME and just when I thought my mom would finally remove the stick out of her ass and support me in just getting a Ph. D (hopefully) in psych and not go to med school she just pretends to agree with me so she can blab about me to my sister so she can come and talk to me about it. I'm sick of just rolling over and taking it. If she wants someone to go to med school so badly then she should go back to school and leave me & my life alone.

I get that she wants whats best for me, but she has to let ME want it. Forcing me to do something is just going to make me rebel more.

And for that matter, I'm 20 years old why am I still fighting with her about MY life anyway? I hate overbearing parents.

/whine

Edit: Also, to combat all the haters COBRA STARSHIP - GOOD GIRLS GO BAD has made it to the Top 40. It's the first song for Gabe out of two bands and a combined 6 CDs. Of course downers on AP.net are saying it's because Leighton Meester (of Gossip Girl fame) is on the track but no matter how he got there the point is that he did. CONGRATS.

If you haven't heard the song:




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In order to understand this post you kind of have to read this one Gabe Saporta Interview on absolutepunk.net which is a message board for all things punk music related (more like scene music related, but shhh don't tell these guys they're scene). The gist of the post is that one of AP.net's contributors is going to be doing an exclusive nothing held back interview with Gabe and he opened up the thread to get other fans/haters to submit some questions he should ask. So I already know that's asking for trouble because FBR/Decaydance has no love loss with the fan base over at AP.net.

(BTW, Gabe Saporta is the lead singer of the band Cobra Starsip and formerly the lead singer/bassist of band Midtown if you don't know who either of those bands are look it up, I promise you won't be disappointed. Well, you might actually, Cobra Starship is an acquired taste I guess.)

So the people over there are asking questions that you think by now that would be sick of asking: "Why'd you break up Midtown?" "Is Midtown ever coming back" and then there's the ones that even I'm questioning like "Why are you backing a band like the Millionaires" "Why are you promoting your alcohol and drug abuse?" and then there are the silly and downright offensive ones like "How do you feel being Pete Wentz's douche?" "How does Pete Wentz's dick taste like?" "When'd you figure out you were a homosexual?"

Here's my stance on Gabe Saporta, and in general the music I like and the scene I support. In a nutshell, if you don't like it don't buy it. Don't comment on it. Don't waste your time annoying other fans about it. Gabe's said it a million times, he started Cobra Starship because he wanted to make music that he could have fun with and that you could dance to and although it is drastically different from anything Midtown did (and I love Midtown as well, don't get me wrong) Midtown didn't work, but Cobra Starship did. It's like it becomes a crime when you do well in the music industry and you suddenly become a sell out. I don't hate on an artist who needs to eat and pay the bills. Cobra Starship isn't "selling out" it's "paying the bills" and if you don't like it, well it doesn't really matter because obviously there are a ton of people who do because CS sells out tours and CDs.

And it seems to me like people attack Cobra Starship because of Gabe and because he is no longer with Midtown. If you look at it as two completely separate entities (which they are) and the fact that they are two radically different veins of music then you can see that they are both brilliant in their own way. Midtown was great for that thinking crowd because that's where he was in his life, Gabe stated Midtown in college and his lyrics were smart & clever & intuitive and it spoke to that crowd who could vibe with that sound. But sorry guys, college kids don't pay the bills so they broke up (or are on hiatus, no word on what happened to midtown) and he did his thing and reappeared with Cobra Starship who honestly sounds like a transplant from the 80s with some seriously poppy lyrics and overuse of the keytar. And as cheesy as it may be and as gimmicky as (even I can admit) it is Cobra Starship has gotten way more notoriety, way more fans, and way more press (and let's admit it good press is just as good as bad press) than Midtown ever did or ever will and it's taken Gabe somewhere in his life that we may not all agree with, but it's his decision, his voice, and his band. Who are we to judge? He doesn't need to defend his choices to anyone.

Though one thing I will agree with is yes, Gabe does have a moral responsibility to his fans who are of the younger set to not be promoting his obvious abuse of alcohol and drugs. It's not okay for him to ask for Percoset on his list of things he wants his fans to have on Warped, or twitter about how hopped on pain meds and Vodka he is. Or promote a band who is filled with 19 year olds and only one member over the age of 21 singing "let's get fucked up" and "give me that alcohol." Yes, I'm 20 and not of drinking age and I love alcohol and I was probably 19 drinking it too (hey, I'm in college) but I don't have a huge fan base of 12 year olds following my every move either so I don't have anyone to report to. I remember when Gabe used to stand up for his choice in being a vegetarian or his involvement in PETA but now all you see is him with a bottle of Grey Goose and it's unfortunate, but such is the business of (underage) girls throwing themselves at you and not having anyone to answer to but people just as drunk and unhindered as you. I'm interested in seeing what his answers to those questions are going to be.

To wrap up this post I think that we as a fan base put to much pressure on the artists we love to be someone who we have no idea they can actually be. Musicians are human, more human than most and they're prone to making mistakes just like we are. And although they should be a little more conscious of the decisions they're making, sometimes they aren't and they're allowed to slip and fall. True fans will always be there to catch them.

I love my music, I love my scene and everyone in it. Yes, it has problems. Yes, sometimes the artists I love do some stupid shit. But it's all apart of the game of being a celebrity and I respect them for taking on the task.
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So I said I like to drink. And I do. A lot.

But I am in no means one of those persistently drunk, let's go play beer pong, drink beer all day, go to the pool and drink beer, drink beer on the way to class, and get more beer while I'm drinking beer kind of people. LIKE EVERY PERSON THAT LIVES IN THIS APARTMENT COMPLEX.

Seriously, I'm so sick of walking into my elevator or my best friend's elevator (who lives across the pool from me) and smelling day old beer congealing in the corner or almost walking into piles of puke. It's disgusting. I don't understand how 95% of college kids pass college with that amount of beer in their system!

And right now there's this huge party downstairs and it's like seriously?! Again?! Don't you people get sick of drinking shitty beer and hot tubbing?
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It's not even worth making a post about.
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So I walked out of work today.

It's come to the point where it's my self respect or it's that job. And I care a whole lot more about my self respect than some part time job. Like I've stated before we got some new management at Ross and she's a handful to say the least. I don't like her, but that's not the problem. The problem is that she presumes that I'm going to lie down and let her walk all over me just because she's area supervisor. Which, I'm not.

Yesterday, I came in to work and I was supposed to be in fitting room where I am 90% of the time. She has a certain way of doing the fitting room which isn't the way that I do it. That's where our quarrel begins. And, though I agree that if she's a manager I have an obligation to implement her changes I also have a right to not do them if they don't make any plausible sense. I don't get a lot of help in the fitting room so the way I do makes sure that I can maximize all the space that I can possibly use because it's a necessity to make things easier for me. She doesn't agree with me. Okay that's fine, so I went to my store manager and told him that I wasn't going to have her talking down to me. He told me to do it like I do it, and to ignore her.

So that's what I did yesterday, and then she threatened to have me fired, switch stores, have my hours cut and that if I wanted to I could go cry about it to Glenn (my store manager) because she was going to fight me on it.

First off, you are a manager. Act like it. You don't tell your coworker to "go cry about something" you try to solve it, you try to compromise. You don't throw out ultimatums like a spoiled child on a power trip.

Second off, in the world of Ross you don't have any power. You are just like every other employee but with a fancier title. You're not even a real manager. You can't fire me. You can't cut my hours. If you want to scare me, then have something to back that up. The only person who has the power to fire me is the store manager.

And speaking of cutting hours, I'm a part time employee. I don't want to be working 40 hours a week like this is a full time job. My full time job is school and I've been trying to get them to reduce my hours for months. Thanks for speeding up the process because I sure as hell won't be working with you so they'll have to cut my hours.

At the end of the day I'm never going to let someone make me feel like I'm less of a person or try to make me feel that way. It might have been a little drastic to have walked out today, but I've never been that person to roll over and take someone treating me badly.

I have to go in tomorrow morning to talk to my store manager. That should be interesting.

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